Here’s a question I got over email: I am trying to understand the psychology of male arousal i.e what causes a man to get aroused at the sight of a fully dressed woman. The reason for this question is because I repeatedly encounter this issue in the workplace which I would like your insights on.  […]

Have you been following the news about the raid on the Rentboy.com offices? Rentboy was a website designed to connect trans and cisgender male escorts with clients. Two days ago, police arrested the CEO and six staffers, charging them with promoting prostitution. When we compare the way that Rentboy is being talked about compared to […]

I’ve been really excited to see that more companies are starting to make high-quality prostate toys than ever before. For a long time, prostate pleasure fans who wanted a vibrator had to adapt G-spot toys, and while the prostate is a lot like the G-spot, many G-spot toys are either too textured for comfortable anal […]

After 23 years living in Oakland, the time has come for me to find a new home. My partner and I are going to be moving to Seattle by early August. This has been in the works for a while. In fact, the first time we talked about it was about 12 years ago. Elizabeth […]

Abortion is a difficult topic to talk about, and not just because the experience can stir up a lot of challenging emotions. It’s hard to talk about because the two main sides to the cultural arguments about it don’t have much common ground. The anti-abortion folks (I refuse to call the pro-life until I see […]

Here’s a question that showed up in my in box that I think will resonate with many of you: I have been dating my boyfriend for six months. I like him a lot. He likes to touch my breasts a lot, including when we’re not having sex or during foreplay — just casually, because he […]

I love teaching workshops about sex. There’s something about getting up in front of a group of people and talking with them about how to create passionate, powerful sexual experiences that makes me really happy. And as a sex educator, I’m always learning new ways to offer my audiences different ways to learn about pleasure. […]